Atomic Habits by James Clear is an amazing resource in learning how to take small steps toward your goals--so small it may seem ludicrous. BUT going from 0 to 100 towards your goals can only set you up for failure, too.
"Life is easier when you know what you want—but most people don't take the time to figure out what they want. It's not that we are completely lost, but our efforts are often slightly misdirected. People will work for years and ultimately achieve a lifestyle that isn't quite what they were hoping for—often, simply, because they never clearly defined what they wanted. An hour of thinking can save you a decade of work."
How much time do you set aside to think about (plan, consider, journal, reflect on) what you really, really want?